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Why can't I get a girl to like me?

I'm 20, and I've never had a girlfriend. I don't really have any close friends that are girls. I'm pretty shy, but when I'm in the right group of people you probably wouldn't know notice my shyness. Though I am kind, loving and caring. When I do talk to girls I actually care what they are saying and feeling. Even without the shyness, I still never know what to say. Little clip from my facebook profile. :Video games, Anime, Progamming, and 3D Modeling, Just having funInterests:Video games, Anime, Progamming, 3D Modeling, music, movies, computers, computer parts(Watching how strong they are becoming), hot girls that are strong Christians, hanging out with my friends, Trying to become a stronger Christian, Trying to make new friendsFavorite Music:After Forever, Children of Bodom, Daath, Dark Moor, Drowning Pool, Epica, Killswitch Engage, Lunatica, Nightwish, Powerman 5000, Soilwork, SpineShank, Static-X, The Agony Scene, Celldweller, In Flames, Dir en Grey, Maximum the Hormone, Disciple, DethKlok, Five Finger Death Punch, Krypteria, SlipknotFavorite TV Shows:Normal shows: Kyle XY, The Middle Man Cartoons: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Venture Bros, Robot Chicken Anime: Bleach, Naruto, One Piece, Death Note, Busou Renkin, Yu Yu Hakusho, Full Metal Panic, Full Metal AlchemistFavorite Movies:300, Hellboy, The Dark Knight, anything funnyFavorite Books:Bible, I don't read much else except stuff to help me out with 3D modeling and programming. Video Games: Tales of the Abyss, Star Ocean: the Second Story, Final Fantasy VII, Dark Cloud 2, Devil May Cry 3

Public Comments

1. Im sure you will find the right girl someday. I havnt had a boyfriend and im still happy.
2. You sure do watch an awful lot of adult swim, sweetheart ^_^
3. dude, you just have to find a tomboy. she'll watch and relate all that stuff with you, but deep down she knows how to be a girl. trust me, i'm a tomboy and i dig all that stuff. you should get a makeover or something so that girls notice you. asian chicks normally like animes and all that, so try looking at barnes and noble in the graphic novel section. if you're outfit doesn't match your personality, it'll be a turn on to those chicks. they probably deal with lamer people than you. pick up on chicks at shows (if you go to them). i dunno, there will always be someone out there.
4. Idk.......im tryna find a video game girl which is kind of hard....and well most of them are.....white. Bleach owns, Avatar owns, Robo chicken owns, Final Fantasy 7 owns, Dark coud 2 was kind gay........
5. You can't get a girl to like you because..... You worry about size mattering to a girl You don't know what a girl likes in bed. You don't know how to turn a girl on. You waffle about shaving down there, meaning you are indecisive. And the mole probably doesn't help. And good luck finding a girl that wants to wait till marriage. Try a church.
6. You posted a list of your questions that you asked and they are all about sex. I think you probably turn someone off with your preoccupation of sex and not friendship and getting to know someone for who they are instead of what you can get from them.
7. You are dealing with some seriuos issues!! I still want to poke my eye out with a fork!! Try like maybe I dunno post your picture in beauty/fashion-other and put HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no mean answers but I need help what can I do?
8. the best thing i could say is just be yourself, thats what most girls like about you. If u try and imitate someone or try to do something u dislike, u'll only know you end up in more problems later. I used to worry alot about everything too, but i still get girlfriends =) they love me for who I am. Now i know all those believes are not true, i worry less and let life unfold itself. You are way too young to talk about marriage man! Maybe you are just too young, be patient!
9. i have to be honest here buddy but i think its probabily because you come across as a bit geeky, avatar is like for 10 year olds........ try to find some more grown up interests that some girls will share :)
10. you'll find one I dont have one and Im not looking