3D - 2 - Why don't girls like me or even wanna be my friend.?

Why don't girls like me or even wanna be my friend.?

I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I don't shove my faith my down people's throats, but I do talk about when people wanna know about it. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide... GAD: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide... ADD: http://www.add-adhd.org/ADHD_attention-d... TMJ: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temporomand... Social Anxiety: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide... and a touch of depression. From my facebook... Religious Views:Non-denominational Christian Personal InformationActivities:Video games, Anime, Progamming, and 3D Modeling, Just having fun Interests:Video games, Anime, Progamming, 3D Modeling, music, movies, computers, computer parts(Watching how strong they are becoming), hanging out with my friends, Trying to become a stronger Christian, Trying to make new friends, Mythology Favorite Music: Metal Favorite TV Shows: Normal shows: Kyle XY, The Middle Man Cartoons: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Venture Bros, Robot Chicken, Family Guy, futurama Anime: Bleach, Naruto, One Piece, Death Note, Busou Renkin, Yu Yu Hakusho, Full Metal Panic, Full Metal AlchemistFavorite Movies:300, Hellboy, The Dark Knight, anything funnyFavorite Books:Bible, I don't read much else except stuff to help me out with 3D modeling and programming.

Public Comments

It's because you're creepy.
I'm guessing because you're boring and desperate. But there should be some girls in church who are in the same boat, so I suggest you try there.
Don't look for it. Wait for the right person to come to you. I just finished asking my friend why can't I get a Girlfriend? Am I that hideous or something? All she said was wait and let it happen. I did and I found the girl of my dreams.... I love her so much.
err.. stop bein soo religious.
I don't know. You sound awesome. I would date you. That's awesome that you want to wait til marriage, not that many guys are doing that.
you must be in a bad section of town because you seem like a great guy remember, you will find someone eventually. just let it come to you!
You sound like a pretty good guy to me, just the geek/anime/computer stuff is a bit of a turn off. And the low self confidence. Girls like guys who have confidence and show it, not hide behind computers. But other than that you sound great. Your religion is not a reason why girls shouldnt like you, if thats something that you were thinking. Idk if i helped, just sharing my point of view:]
i will be your friend :D
umm you have low self confidence, you are shy, and a computer nerd. OCD, ADD. social anxiety, depression... dude all these things are bad qualities. suprises me you cant recognize this.
It's because girls crave a "bad boy". They crave that guy they meet at a party late at night who sweeps them off their feet. I have never heard a girl sigh, and say "Man, I just looove computer nerds." My ex boyfriend was kind of like you, a "nice" guy. He was bland, funny, and far too nice. He wanted to wait till marriage for sex. After 3 weeks, I got bored and dropped him. It's not because of the no sex thing, it was because there was no excitement. He wouldn't sneak into my house to lay with me. He wouldn't take me to parties. He was too...goood. I think that might be the problem, although you seem like a really nice, sweet guy. I'm just giving you a girl's perspective.
i have no clue why! you seem like a nice guy! i have to say this girls first go on aperence and im not saying your ugly or anything cuz i dont know you soit could be because they are to focused on first impression or they are jerks and are going on how you look!
well. you don't sound that bad. the only thing is, maybe try to go outside more and stop spending so much time on the computer. you sound like a good person and a girl who really loves you will be willing to wait until marriage and won't care if you have ADD o anything. also, give a girl a chance to get to know you, don't tell her HEY I'M A CHRISTIAN AND A GEEK! maybe you can start off slow and if the girl likes you, then she likes you for you. there's a girl out there who likes you and you just need to find her! like i said, maybe go outside and mingle with new people. i'm sure a few minor adjustments, not too major and nothing bad, will really be good and you'll get a girlfriend. but only get the girl because she likes YOU not the person you're pretending to be =] good luck
What you just said is your problem. Its really hard to find girls that are into you I say. Your life is boring I guess. Do you go hang out at the mall? It seems that you are looking for this perfect girl that is like super nice good, sexy and stuff. But I tell you, thats REALLY hard to find. And even if you do find her, I don't think your relationship will be perfect because you haven't had any past relationship experience. Be yourself when your talking to girls man, don't be shy and stuff just say, and lie stuff. Almost all the girls these days go for the "bad boys", Why? because they are fun, girls like to have the feeling of adrenaline on them. I don't mean bad boys as in doing drugs, criminal stuff, beating up people.
you sound so awsome i would totally date you ... girls arent avoiding you cuz of ur religion most of them think its kool to be into ur religion....dont worry that special smoeone will come promise you just have to wait it out... it may be hard to wait for the right person but its worth it when you find the right one.... and they like you for who u are .... its a good idea to wait till marrige most guys would never even consider waiting till there married...
omg!!! You're just like me! I'd date you! You're one of the few guys who'll wait. Only major difference is that I'm not a Christian, I'm a Hindu.
lol wow sounds almost exactly like me, accept anime, OCD,ADD.depressed stuff. u dont happen to be in wheelchair, r u? if so, email me, dumdum18@rochester.rr.com. I have same issues w/ girls n im shy too. girls r my friends tho, but never more than friends. im also computer geek, graphic designer, 3D modeling, art, drawing, web design, programming. I plan to wait fr all sex stuff till marriage too but i decided whoever i have sex w/ 1st, i'll promise n make a covanent that I will Marry her no matter what. I think the bible actually says that too. if u have pre-marital sex, u must both promise to get married n then do get married. umm fr ur question, no matter what talk to girls, TALK, u got nothing to lose n everything to gain, u got only 1 life to live, live it, God will help u if u try helping yrself.
first of all if your a christian you wouldn't be trying to thinking perverted thoughts. Read Philippians4:8 whatever is true, whatever is honorable , whatever is just, what ever is pure, whatever is lovely, what ever is commendable if there is any moral excellence and if there is any praise dwell on these thing. Second pray for a friend, God knows your needs better then you know your own. God bless you.