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Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

I'm 20, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. Even the girls that hang with me and my best friends don't like me or really talk to me. I don't think they'd really even qualify me as a friend. I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 5years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I'm very lonely. I have OCD(Around 80% contained, yay God): http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/obsessive-compulsive-disorder GAD(Around 80% contained, yay Jesus): http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/generalized-anxiety-disorder ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems): http://www.add-adhd.org/ADHD_attention-deficit.html TMJ: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temporomandibular_joint_disorder Social Anxiety: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/mental-health-social-anxiety-disorder and a touch of depression(Probably connected to my lonelyness.). From my facebook... Religious Views:Non-denominational Christian Personal InformationActivities:Video games, Anime, Progamming, and 3D Modeling, Just having fun Interests:Video games, Anime, Progamming, 3D Modeling, music, movies, computers, computer parts(Watching how strong they are becoming), hanging out with my friends, Trying to become a stronger Christian, Trying to make new friends, Mythology Favorite Music:After Forever, Children of Bodom, Daath, Dark Moor, Drowning Pool, Epica, Killswitch Engage, Lunatica, Nightwish, Powerman 5000, Soilwork, SpineShank, Static-X, The Agony Scene, Celldweller, In Flames, Dir en Grey, Maximum the Hormone, Disciple, DethKlok, Five Finger Death Punch, Krypteria, Slipknot, Shadows Fall, Silent Civilian, Sonic Syndicate, Avenged Sevenfold, War of Ages, Machine Head, Schoolyard Heroes, Mudvayne, Sybreed, Threat Signal Favorite TV Shows: Normal shows: Kyle XY, The Middle Man Cartoons: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Venture Bros, Robot Chicken, Family Guy, futurama Anime: Bleach, Naruto, One Piece, Death Note, Busou Renkin, Yu Yu Hakusho, Full Metal Panic, Full Metal Alchemist Favorite Movies: 300, Hellboy, The Dark Knight, Knowing, anything funny Books:Bible, I don't read much else except stuff to help me out with 3D modeling and programming.

Public Comments

1. Just becasue someone is christan doesnt mean they are a good person.
2. stop praying and start partying
3. why not try joining some singles groups, join a new church that has young singles. she will come along when u least expect it, so be patient. could maybe find her on an internet dating group, i know of a person who found her future husband on the Internet. but just be careful, lots of different types of people on there.
4. It's the 'pervertedness' that they don't like!
5. dude. it's because YOU ARE A DORK! no offense but if you want a gf you have GOT to get off yur computer and do something else for a change. perhaps a rock concert? lol